not so good

Holla peeps! ive checked my result -___-" aiyoo not so cemerlang lah. quite disappointed but okay lah. before exam pun bukan study sangat, study last minute :/ so serve you right la you got your result liddat. HAHA. but as long as i can make my mum smile, then im happy enough :) and as long as i can go to next level, PST, then im thankful enough. i'll come back Penang! wait for me. and to all ex PDT-ians, we'll meet again this 23rd May. lets make history on our second year and pass our PST with flying colours. hope all of us will be somebody oneday nanti :) err apa apa pun, better kita enjoy dulu one month ni =___=" or we'll regret nanti. okay, later yolss! XOXO

BY THE WAY,,

you olzz wanna know my result? hee ;) 3.42 je. disappointed jugak lah. but still okay. i'll worker harder next sem! 

HAHA! padahal dah pukul 1 kan. good afternoon actually. by the way, you guys should hear how i pronounce and say "GOOD MORNING FWENSSS" serious shit its annoying =.=' if i know how to put audio in my blog, i'll surely put in my voice here. muhahaha. i woke up at 11 am this morning. and you know what, my mum bising gila! :O "ANAK DARA BANGUN LAMBAT NANTI MUKA NAMPAK TUA TAKDA SAPA MASUK MEMINANG!" i was like WAAATTAAAA? -___- i had coco crunch for my breakfast, and today my grandma masak apa tah i dont know. i dont wanna eat lah, must diet! diet! diet! okay lah, nanti sambung lagi. xoxo

not important

So tired right now. not enough sleep, tak lunch lagi, just got back from hospital visit my grandpa, tomorrow kaki my grandpa kena operate. bone cancer. this is the third time he face the same operation. poor atuk ;( i love you. hope everything will be fine after this. cancer cell is not easy to cure. im afraid that in the future i'll be facing it too. hopefully, i wont.

TENSION!

OMG, result will be send to our house next week. if im not mistaken, next tuesday right? i hope mine would be okay lah. im not hoping to get like 4 pointer. but i hope its enough to make my parents smile :) and i can continue my second year this 23rd may. i cant wait to go back to penang and finish up my matrik. then get my result. then continue degree. it doesnt matter whether i'll continue at any local university or insyaAllah overseas :) as long as i can make my parents proud of having a daughter like me. i love both of you so much.

p/s : im so stress right now. i need someone to talk to. I HATE EVERYBODY AROUND ME!

my face is like this right now!

my dream

I will be a super duper hot and sexy doctor oneday nanti :)

nak tau tak?

Last week, 6th April, for the first time in my life, i experienced shooting for a drama. what drama? sorry i cant tell you. segan -.- me, kathy and my adik went to hulu selangor. memang hulu sangat, cause line pun takda langsung. at first i thought shooting films or dramas are easy and not that hard but for what ive been through for one whole week, serious shit it is not that easy. too much "CUT!" and repeating the same dialogues hundred times. and you know lah kan, malaysia's whether ni macam mana. i was sweating like hell yah! we have about 7 scenes but we managed to do just 4 of them because i cant stand it anymore. waiting like stupid people, and their schedule was like -__- berterabur. and i know we are extra but doesnt mean you can easily playing and ejek us. wathehell man? but i'll take it as a lesson. being an actress is not my thang. i hate people like suruh me do that do this. and critics me. i just hate it. i dont know why. maybe i got it from my daddy. HAHAHA! you know what, at last i gave up and i talked to the production's manager, "i want my payment now! and i wanna go back home" then they said okay and we got our payments. and say BAI BAI. i dont really like this bidang lah but at least ive experienced it once :) i dont know whether in the future i would like to try it again or not. we'll see. ive met dynass and maya karin! they are gorgeous. like seriously T__T no wonder la they can be so famous, im soooo damn jealous with them. they're like angels from heaven and tersesat masuk bumi. BAHAHA! okay i talk nonsense now. okay thats all for now. thanks for reading this. kbye. XOXO

who you are

I stare at my reflection in the mirror

Why am I doing this to myself?
Losing my mind on a tiny error,
I nearly left the real me on the shelf 

 "no,no, no, no"


Don't lose who you are, in the blur of the stars
Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing,
It's okay not to be okay
Sometimes it's hard, to follow your heart
Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising,
Just be true to who you are
Who you are


Brushing my hair, do I look perfect?
I forgot what to do to fit the mould , yeah!
The more I try the less it's working yeah yeah yeah
Cause everything inside me screams, "no,no,no,no"


Don't lose who you are, in the blur of the stars
Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing,
It's okay not to be okay


Sometimes it's hard, to follow your heart.
But tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising,
There's nothing wrong with who you are!


Yes, no, egos
Fake shows like woah
Just go, and leave me alone
Real talk real life
Good love goodnight
With a smile that's my home
That's my home


Don't lose who you are, in the blur of the stars
Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing,
It's okay not to be okay
Sometimes it's hard, to follow your heart.
Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising,
Just be true to who you are
Who you are

love yourself

I have one serious problem since i was in kindergarden. no one noticed it because i like to be alone and i dont like friends. i keep on staying away from people. this is me. even until now i keep trying to make friends but deep inside me, im still the old hass.

LOW SELF ESTEEM

I always think im not perfect and some other girls out there are perfect enough to be compared with me. seriously this thing disturbing my mind like hell. once when i was in high school, around 14 to 17 years old, i was too scared to go out hanging around with my schoolmates. i didnt joined any outdoor activities. i didnt attend to school on our class photoshoot session for magazine. at school i just do my own work. i just hope that people didnt noticed  me at all, i came to school, doing my things, chit chat a bit with person who sitting beside me, then go for lunch, ALONE, then continue my classes, then mama came picked me up. paaap! IM HOME now. you guys dont even know its really hard to be me. my confident level is too low or maybe didnt have confident at all.

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME T___T

I always think that im fagly (fat and ugly), i dont have flawless skin, im short, i dont have such a beautiful eyes, i dont have such a beautiful body, my hair is ugly, bla bla bla. and this things really really make me sick! sometimes i feel like i wanna die or i want to walk across the road slowly until a huge lorry bumped me, and i need a plastic surgery from head to toe. i know i sound stupid but so what? LIKE I CARE :O but this is me. and ive tried so hard before to change myself, to love my myself the way i am, i accept what GOD gave me, maybe you guys see i am confident with myself but you dont see inside me. even sometimes i need to google 'how to love yourself', 'love your body', and so on. critical right? then after reading those articles, i feel better. tapi sekejap je tahan. haihh.

HASMIDA..HASMIDA, bila la kau nak berubah ni? *my mom always said laikdis. HAHA!*

The situation that i hate the most is when my relatives come and visit us or the moment when my family go to visit our relatives at kampung. they will always like judge me, comment about how do i look now like "kaklong, lain la muka sekarang. asal gemuk ni?" or "hidung ko makin besar aku tengok, lain dengan mak ko" wathefuckman? you guys just know how to critic others. look at yourself first! if you're perfect enough to look at me and judge me, then go ahead but you're not. stupidasshole. i hate this kinda people =.=" they must stay away from me.

Enough about my storiess. orang tua ni asyik membebel je dari tadi -.-'

Okay, this are some way to love ourself! heee :) girls out there who face the same problem like mehh, come and read this. maybe this can help us to be more confident with ourself. good luck!

• Be honest with yourself about how valuable you believe you are. The way you see yourself and treat yourself is the very way others will see you and treat you. Do you see yourself as valuable and worthy of the gift of love? Do you treat yourself lovingly and as a valuable being? And most importantly, do you treat OTHERS with love? That's the first step to feeling better about yourself. It’s ok to be truthful with yourself, though it may not be pretty! Awareness is the first and more powerful step on the path to change!

• Start sharing. This is one of the most important steps you need to take. This may be the reason you are suffering and cannot feel love in your life. If you are serious about yourself and don't want to lose yourself, start sharing today. Share with others everything you have. Everybody has something to share. Share your happiness, sadness, money or things you use, and most importantly your knowledge. By sharing slowly and surely, you will start feeling worth for yourself and you will start loving yourself. Initially, you may feel that other people are taking advantage of you, but after a month of practice, you will see a change in yourself.

• Learn to let go. There are a lot of people out there that have had hard lives/bad beginnings or moments. A lot of people close up on themselves out of grief or fear and have a hard time opening back up. It is important to let go of all the pain that is still inside of you from that bad experience. This is often the hardest part of the journey, but once you've done it, you will really benefit from it.

• Think about what you need to fill that emptiness inside, that place that is longing for love. What specifically are you lacking? Find the answer and then give it to yourself. No one is more capable of loving you, and giving you exactly what you need than you are! When you learn how to fulfill yourself in that way, you stop searching for it outside of yourself and you suddenly begin attracting it to you. You change yourself from a sponge to a magnet! People see you radiating self love and they are drawn to you.

• Keep a journal. Write about your experiences, good and bad. When you write down your good experiences allow yourself to feel those good feelings again. When you remember the bad experiences, allow yourself to feel pride. Pride because you faced a challenge in your life and you are here today to write about it, which must mean you are a survivor and a fighter. Tell yourself, "I know pain, but I have yet to be introduced to surrender." Keep on keeping on. SERIOUSLY ive tried this once and its working! but then i was too busy with classes so got no time to continue writing.

• Get in Tune with Yourself. Music reminds us of who we really are.

• Do 3 things a day, to change yourself into your dream person If it is gaining or losing weight, then take a step by dancing for 20 minutes. If you want to ace your midterms, study harder. If you need to become more organized and stop procrastinating then start cleaning and maintaining a place for every single item. Do what is on your to do list by scheduling yourself. Those are examples of 3 things to do in one day, to further a goal of someone becoming more fit, working towards a great career and gaining the mental clarity from the liberation of clutter! Achieving your goals, can make you love yourself much more because you are building a foundation of your own life and character. That is very attractive and will make you more valuable! Motivation? Happiness, success and hopefully, inner peace. Grab a hobby, finish or start education. The brand new you will arrive. Success is the best revenge!

Hey guys, i wanna give some tips about how you can love yourself :)

• Well this is something that I think is useful, remember that you are only human because sometimes we feel like outcasts or weirdos but that is just something that makes you unique and to be human is to be imperfect
• Here's something to try saying every day. Place it on your mirror. It always helps: "Look in the mirror and what do I see? A handsome boy staring back at me!" "Oh wow!" I thought. Who could that be? [smile and say] "Oh! It's most definitely me!"
• Keep a list of the things you love about yourself or things you've done that if you saw someone else do them, you would love them. For instance, if you scored more in basketball, write it down, then eventually you can build up more pros, to help you know why to love yourself (if you're analytical).
• Just don't become vain,vanity is not loving yourself.
• Do what you enjoy. Go out anywhere, or with anyone. Or stay at home, prepare yourself a nice meal and settle down with a good book in front of a cozy fire. Make yourself happy.
• Every time you feel a negative emotion, pause and feel it, then thank yourself for feeling it. Emotions are nothing more than an experience which contributes to who we are. Accepting negative things as good things in another perspective can yield great results.
• Mirrors will be your friend in this process. Seeing yourself as lovely and worthy of love is extremely important. Pick a favorite characteristic about yourself, and determine what exactly you don't like about yourself. Then proceed to fix these imperfections.
• Never EVER EVER EVER expect to be like someone else 100%. Use your life to build a mysterious and appealing YOU. Not a remake of someone else which turns people away. Write a diary of your exciting and unique life!
• Listen carefully to the messages you are sending for yourself. Turn off negative messages or turn them into a positive messages.

 AND REMEMBER THIS!

• Loving oneself is different from self-adoration or narcissism, which are negative and a huge turn off to others as they involve placing oneself above others.
• Loving yourself does not mean grabbing all of the attention and becoming selfish. It is actually a golden confidence that whispers, I know when it is my time to shine and I can become selfless.
• Remember this is just a guide, a guide compiled of hundreds of random people's different opinions. The best way to love yourself is to trust who YOU are, YOU have all the answers for you.

I just hope after i post this, i'll keep on reading it. i want to change myself but its really hard. i wanna leave the old me. i wanna love myself and make people around me love me. who doesnt want to be loved right? haihh okay lah, thats all for today. see you guys again later! byee peeps. XX

p/s : sorry too much grammatical error. im not that good in english but sayang, you can help me kan? teach me english pleaseeeee. hee gedik. KBYE

omjay?

 

I HAVE TO DIET STARTING FROM NOW! SERIOUSLYYY!

lifeless

emm :( almost one week saya duduk rumah saja. jadi anak yang baik or to be exact, KENA GROUNDED. but padan muka kau lah, your mistake then mama and papa should kurung kau pun. you deserve it lah, hasmida. could you guys just imagined, almost one week i stucked in my room doing nothing. aiyoo boleh mati ini macam. and now, saya sorang sorang :'( sedih sangat. i need someone to make me happy, to make me laugh like before. ive cried toooooo much this week. TOO MUCH. sampai selsema semua, tak makan lagi. lagi seminggu macam ni, sure tinggal tulang je. then, zul pun mesti tinggal kan kau cari orang lain. haha joke -.-' i just hope everything's will be fine before next week. pleaaase :'( i cant take it anymore. i dont care you guys want me to just stay home, buat kerja rumah semua. but please, please forgive me. i promise it wont happened again. i promise. okay thats all for today (tipuuu, kejap lagi mesti dia post lagi) haha okay baii you olzz :)

How to make a girl fall for you?

• Listen to what she has to say
• Remember what she says.
• Paying attention even when she isn’t around. Example? "I remember you telling me you love that song by So-and-so. It was playing the other day and it made me think of you."
• Let her know she comes into your mind even when she isn’t around. 
• Compliment her.
• Make her smile.
• Give her enough space to maintain her desired Independence.
• Be there when she needs you. Even if it seems silly to you. Problems affect different people differently, so try to understand.
• Don’t let her get away with disrespecting you. This may come as a surprise, but in every relationship, there will times where boundaries are tested. She won’t fall for someone who let’s themselves be walked all over. Let her know that you will always respect her, and you expect the same in return.
• Trust her. Jealousy is only attractive to those immature enough to find it flattering. In reality, jealous can be a very ugly thing when it goes to great extents. Trust her. If you don’t and can’t trust her, then you don’t belong in a relationship with this person.
• Be worthy of her trust, and expect her to trust you as well. This is one of the keys to make or break a relationship.
• Surprise her. It doesn’t have to be anything big. Maybe just showing up at her house or work to say hello, if she likes that sort of thing. Maybe the next time she comes over you have her favorite dessert waiting, or anything you know she likes.
• Make her feel welcome in your home. It can be awkward in the beginning of a relationship getting comfortable in a new place. Assure her and do small things to make sure she feels at ease. Later on, don’t make a huge fuss about letting her leave a few things at your place. If you want her to stay over, then it’s nice for her to have some toiletries or extra garments around, so she can feel fresh and prepared.
• Do something out of your comfort zone, especially for her. If you never cook, cook her something. If you can’t dance, but she loves dancing, take a class together. Try something she loves, even if it is unusual for you. Who knows? You might even end up loving it.
• Be happy. Sometimes all it takes to brighten someone else’s day is to have a good one yourself. Happiness is infectious. Be a fun loving person, and she’ll want to be around you.
• Give her something to look forward to. Let her know that on Wednesday or Monday or Friday or the 24th, you have something planned. It may not be your anniversary, it may not be Valentine’s day - it’s just any old day. But something is going to happen on it, she doesn’t know what, and that makes it special alone. She’ll look forward to it all day, all week, or all month - however long you think is long enough and short enough to make her feel excited.
• Make things special without spending any money. Flowers, chocolates, wine, dinners on the town are all great, but it’s also important that even when the weather is dull and you don’t want to leave the house, or you’re saving your funds for something else, that fun won’t be forfeited. Light some candles and give each other massages. Watch a great movie that you both love, and prepare some special treats for the evening. Cozy up with some tea, coffee, hot chocolate in a big arm chair and just talk.
• Laugh off the small mistakes. Don’t make a big ordeal out of every minor, little thing she might do wrong. Be easygoing.
• Dress up for her. Maybe you’re a casual type of guy, but once in awhile, throw on that tuxedo t-shirt and let her know you want to look nice for her. I’m sure you love it when she dresses up for you.
• Be active together. Whether you run, walk, swim, hike, ice skate, hit the gym, snowboard, ski, toboggan - get the blood pumping and have fun getting active together.
• Send her a random e-mail. Or an IM. Or a text. Even if you live together and see each other everyday, it’s nice to get those sweet little notes.
• Misbehave together once in awhile. Stay up really late. Eat that chocolate cake. Indulge in something you probably shouldn’t, but do it together.
• Go traditional, and get her flowers. Or a flower. For no reason.
• Tell your friends that she’s great. It’s not like you have to ramble on for hours, but it goes a long way if, upon meeting her, your friends can genuinely say ‘I’m so glad to finally meet you, my buddy has told me so many good things about you." She will be beaming.
• Wrestle. Play. Tickle her. Have some childish fun.
• If you’ve been together for awhile, kiss her like it’s the first time all over again.
• Take care in the details. Know what’s important to her - birthdays, anniversaries - and take care of those things. 

heyy ya'll

Things guys should know about girls

• We are just as shy as you are about relationships
• Many of us don't let you see us cry, unless we want you to comfort us  
• We like dropping small flirts, to see if you are interested. But we will later deny it or make it into a joke 
• Most girls are under the impression that guys only want skinny 'hot' girls  
• Speaking of nicknames, almost every girl has ONE nickname that they just love to be called 
• Most girls will drop lots of hints to tell you that they like you, but won't come right out and say" I like you" or "I love you". If you think they like you, there is a good chance they do
• Girls hate it when guys say perverted things
• Girls love to feel special, even though they might not show it 
• Girls talk about everything with their girl friends. So unless you tell us not to tell them about something, they WILL know about it within 3 days. And if you are the girl's boyfriend, that means, you're possibly 90% of their conversation. And believe me, trash talking takes up most of it, unless you're a Greek god, which you're not
• Girls hate guys with bad hygiene
• Girls love it when a guy pulls them close by the waist 
• Most girls like a guy that will willing dance with them, even if he doesn't know how 
• A kiss on the hand with the right timing can be a REAL TURN-ON 
• When a guy says something really sentimental, girls will remember it forever 
• Girls get embarrassed easily, even if guys don't know what the hell just happened
• When a girl is upset and wants you to listen, she wants you to listen. She doesn't need you to fix it or tell her how to. She just wants you to listen
• When a girl is crying, she feels a lot safer if you pull her close and tell her that everything is going to be all right. And more likely than not, it will endear them to you more than anything else
• Girls love it when guys say their name 
• When a girl cooks for you, you know you mean a lot to her 
• No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe to us. Not because we don't like your taste in women, because believe me WE do! its just that. we don't want to have to wonder if she is better than us. And if she is a hoe, we are better. So it makes things simple for us
• Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emit other strange gases from your body, it is not. Though we sometimes will tell you it is
• DON'T CHEAT ON US. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be dirt
• You don't have PMS; so don't act like you know what it's like. Don't try to understand...believe me you never will
• Ok guys girls don't care about football and if you talk about it and they listen then they REALLY like you
• Girls don't like when you call them your "best chick friend"
• If a girl looks at your eyes when you talk to her then she likes you
• Saying we're beautiful is better than hott
• We often think of the one we love ALL the time
• If a girl JUST likes you we will be shy but if we love you we will pour our heart and soul out to you
• We NEVER forget anything and hold gruges for a long time
• We hate when you act all big and bad like if you tell someone "I'm gonna hit you in the face" we think it is very childish
• If you like a girl TELL HER she wants to know
• If a girl is looking in your eyes she's trying to figure out what your thinking
• We HATE it if you lie about ANYTHING
• If a girl you like starts to go out with a guy and you don't like them then TELL HER
• Girls love to be right and we hate admiting we're wrong
• If your girlfriend is mad at you for no reason then kiss her it'll make her happy again             

5 Things your girlfriend wont tell you!

1. We like the chase – you chasing us. Yep, it’s sad but true that when a guy is too eager to catch us we wonder why. What is wrong with this guy? Why is he so clingy? Is he a control freak? Is he a serial dater? A player with many girlfriends on the go? Is he insane? It’s not that we don’t want to be caught, we do, we just don’t want to feel trapped and when things happen too fast trapped is how we feel. We need to be sure of our feelings and of our attraction before we can step off the racetrack and give up the chase. You need to woo us to make us yours. Some guys lay out traps, saying all the right things and meaning none of them, in an attempt to woo us and this gives way to our biggest fear; falling prey to an insincere guy who is more about the game than being in a relationship. For this reason even once we’re yours, even once we are sure of your feelings and you are sure of ours, we need to still feel a little bit of the chase. When you chase us we feel like you want us and are willing to do some work to be with us and we don’t want that feeling to go away just because you’ve caught us. 
2. When we say we’re “OK” or that things are “fine” the opposite is probably true.
   Girls are communicators. It is hardwired in to our psyches to talk and talk and talk some more whenever there is discord or conflict. So if you sense there’s a problem and gather the courage to ask us and we respond with a “fine” or “it’s ok” or some other sentence with less than 7 (short) words chances are good that we really want to talk. So, you think, what’s a guy to do? You ask a question, you get an answer, and you plan based on that answer. Who wants to read between the lines or guess what is really going on? What a waste of time, right? Wrong! When girls pull the short answers out during a conversation it is because we want you to put the effort in to getting us to open up. It comes from a place of feeling like you don’t usually care what we have to say so we want you to put some effort in to getting us to talk so we can be sure we will be listened to. Now those perceptive guys among you may have your hands up right now waiting to ask the obvious question… if a girl feels like she’s not usually heard isn’t that the REAL problem? Yes, yes it is, and one little talk won’t stop that feeling of being marginalized. In psychology we call this a learned response, a behavior that does not come naturally but rather has been developed through a process called social conditioning. You may very well be the most attentive boyfriend since the dawn of time but if her previous guys made her feel insignificant or unheard you’ll have to help her carry that baggage. Heck, you’ll have to help her unpack it and put it away! So when your girl replies with a curt little answer to your questions don’t take her at face value. Calmly and gently ask her a few more times. Once she feels like you will hear her nature will take over and, voila! You’ll be communicating. 
3. We want you to have your guy time.
   It is such a myth that girls don’t like to let their guy just hang with the boys. It's a terrible lie perpetrated by relationship-phobes throughout the ages. It is totally untrue that we want you to give up your life to be with us. Think of it this way… when we met you and fell for you, you were (hopefully) single and your friends were a big part of your life. Take your friends away and a big piece of the guy we fell for goes with them. So we want you to keep your guy time. We know you need your friends and truth be told we need our friends too. That being said, obviously when you are single you have lots of spare time to spend with friends but when you are in a relationship some of that time is going to be taken up by your significant other (A.K.A. us). That is only normal. It is normal for you to need your guy time and it is normal for you to want to spend time with us. If you find the right balance the guy-time issue quickly becomes a non-issue. It is when we feel like you don’t make as much time for us as you do for them or that you resent being away from your friends when you are with us that the stereotypical “girlfriend verses the friends” scenario takes the stage. It’s all about balance. Spending time with your friends or with us will never be an issue as long as there is a balance and as long as we never feel that they mean more to you than we do or that they come always first.  
4. We want to know your friends but aren’t so sure you need to know ours.
   I’m not going to lie; this is hypocrisy in its most raw form. We want you to bring us around your friends, we want to know them and we want them to like us, but we aren’t quite as crazy about you knowing our friends. The why of this is as simple as it is irrational and here it is… we want to know your boys so we can understand the kinds of things they may get you to do when we’re not around. In short, will they encourage you to cheat on us, will they get you doing reckless and dangerous things, and will they help you engage in self-destructive activities? What we want to know is if they will be good or bad influences on you. We also want to create a buffer; we want your friends to like us so that they won’t want you to lose us. If there is no tension between your friends and us then we don’t need to fear them asking you to choose between love and friendship. Now on the flip side, we don’t really want you getting all chummy with our friends because we don’t want them to fill you in on all of our dirty little secrets. As previously noted girls are talkers by nature and we don’t want them to let something slip that may make you raise an eyebrow in our direction. We also fear, but will never admit fearing, you wanting one of our friends more than you want us. It’s bad enough to lose your guy to another girl but when that girl was once a friend, well, the sting is even sharper. So allow us this hypocrisy. It’s irrational, that's true, but it’s also quite harmless. 
5. We worry that other girls look better now that you are in a relationship.
   Mike nailed the core of every girlfriend's relationship insecurity on the head when he brought up the GIGS (Grass Is Greener Syndrome). The idea that life is better on the other side is one of the most destructive forces in relationship world and girls feel that guys fall for it way too often. It is a great fear of ours that once you can’t have other girls you will suddenly want them all. It leads to a lot of unfounded jealousy brought on by innocent comments on your part or casual non-flirtatious conversations with other girls. So what’s a guy to do? In a perfect world you’d stop interacting with other girls altogether but our rational super-ego knows that’s not realistic. What you need to do is follow these three simple rules; 1) never pay more attention to another girl than you do to your girlfriend, 2) never comment over and over how hot/cool/nice/fun another girl is, and 3) if you meet a great girl while you’re in a relationship hook her up with one of your buddies (also known as taking her off the market and getting her out of our face). And should you ever really get the itch to jump the fence and live life on the other side. just do it! Don’t lead us on, don’t cheat on us, don’t sneak around, just end the relationship. If it ends up being a GIGS fueled mistake. oh well, consider it a hard lesson learned and leave us alone. we won't want you back anyway!

regret

Sweet things to do together :)

• Watch the sunset together.
• Whisper to each other.
• Cook for each other.
• Walk in the rain.
• Hold hands.
• Buy gifts for each other.
• Roses.
• Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together.
• Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
• Hugs are the universal medicine.
• Say only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
• Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie!
• Spend every second possible together.
• Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
• When in public, only flirt with each other.
• Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.
• Sing to each other.
• Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
• Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
• Dance together.
• Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.
• Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes.
• Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
• Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
• Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
• Be Prince Charming to her parents.
• Brush her hair out of her face for her.
• Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
• Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.
• Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
• Make sacrifices for each other.
• Really love each other, or don't stay together.
• Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
• Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.
• Dedicate songs to them on the radio. 
• Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
• Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
• Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say, "Sweet dreams."